Nobody said that marriage was easy and it takes work to keep the romance alive. Some couples master the rules faster than others. Some come to a decision they don’t like the game at all and call it a day. Others carry on playing the game even though they don’t like it and are not having any fun at all. They keep on rolling the dice hoping that things will get better but before it gets to that point, relationships need work and care along the way. Here are some simple ways to keep your relationship in good shape. Don’t wait till Valentine’s Day every year to show you care, do it in small actions every single day.
1. Be Tolerant
It’s easy to see the best in a person as long as they are doing what you like. But it is important to make the effort to not let little things get to you. If your partner does something that does annoy you, don’t look at them as faults but as unique character qualities. Love the faults along with the benefits.
2. Be a Space Giver
This means not only having separate wardrobes but allow each other much needed private time. Being with someone you love all the time is challenging. This applies to not only at home but with friends as well. Incidentally, with regards to the space in the wardrobes, keep yours tidy.
3. Go Away Together
It’s tricky to find time to take a holiday in a busy marriage but both of you will need this time together. A change of surroundings can really reignite the spark or to reminisce on the good times when you have a moment. And memories can be the glue that keeps the family unity while the other pressures of life present daily challenges.
4. Compare Opinions, Don’t Argue
Arguments will arise in any relationship but it’s about being respectful of your partner’s opinion. If the argument gets heated and it’s late in the day, it may be best to go to bed and sleep on it. An old saying recommends that you to never go to bed angry but things generally look better in the morning. Never give an ultimatum unless you want it to be taken seriously. Give consideration to your partner’s likes and dislikes and you’ll have fewer arguments.
5. Don’t Forget The Romance
You don’t have to be newlyweds to experience romance and intimacy. One of the ways to improve a relationship is to remember what you did when you starting dating and do it again. You probably exchanged gifts, took long walks and went out for romantic dinner dates. If you’re prone to forgetting anniversaries or special dates, use productivity apps that can even keep you on a subscription and send gifts for you on time every year.
At DecorWorks, we can design and deliver your customised bouquets, floral gift boxes to your loved ones, and if you keep a subscription delivery, you won’t have to worry about forgetting important dates as we’ll send you reminders every time, email for more details.
